So talked with my coach first time in three months. Just a quick thanks again to those that post to my thread and to Chuck from MWD coaching.
So I keep seeing small improvements with the w and I. I have noticed that my Mil has started to actively show her disapproval mostly by trying to interrupt moments my w and I have and also posting relationship memes to my kids time lines. I quit following her because I found it like snooping I started to check daily to see what she was posting.
So Chuck my coach mentioned this could be a good thing because the W continue’s to come forward in the R and a cost can be associated with it. An example her R with Mother and others in her support Network. If the W has to put effort and “cost” be it emotional and a change with others many times the reconciliation and marriage is better in the long run.
This has given me a lot to think on...
Question?
So even though w is not receiving positive feed back and continues to have more contact with me and the kids. Do I continue the same or try and include Mil in One of our sit down meal family activities right now she attends sporting events with my wife to watch son.
