Also think some people are phone people and some are not. Maybe your XW is a phone person and d is not. Maybe d is more of a texter or something. No idea how people get used to the OMs and OWs with their children. It still drives me nuts but not a damn thing I can do about it so just gotta eat that $*** sandwich.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving