Hi, I would say these things have helped me a lot:
Spending time with old friends New activities and new friends Practicing gratitude Meditation Therapy (in the early days) Reading and posting on this forum and reading around the subject too Divorce recovery group Taking up dancing Yoga Caring for my Mum who has dementia Work - but a nice balance - not too much of it Volunteering in a charity bookstore Upcycling furniture (again early days) Sitting in the garden with the sun on my face or getting out for a walk Treating myself kindly Speaking my truth & greater authenticity Laughing with friends Looking nice and treating myself to nice things Little treats - making a nice little meal etc. Truly letting go and accepting - he will live his own life and do what he will do - I will do the same.
I'm sure there are more, but hope this helps xxx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus