Don't want to be a wayward wife ...

[Matrix]

What do I get from OM? I would say there are two different things. First, there is friendship and what we have in common. Second, is the attraction, desire, danger, and excitement. I'll let you imagine the rest.

What part of any of this isn't the definition of an EA???

It is an affair. An EMOTIONAL AFFAIR.

Those words ARE limerance and getting foggier by the day.

This is exactly what your H felt for his OW when he went off the rails.

I am no judge or jury. I know you have been through hell and back with what your H did to you.

I agree with JRUSS, wholeheartedly. You might want to tell your H, so he knows that he has a choice to "let you go".

I must say with all honesty, Blu, the tone in your posts has changed dramatically. I get the sense we won't be hearing much from you anymore. That's too bad. You are one of the best posters on this forum. But as you drift further and further away, it would make sense that you don't want to hear any of this crap from us anymore.

I wish you the best.