I have been saying this for months now, the LBS uses these terms to make excuses for the WW. "There has to be a reason they are doing this to me". In my opinion it's all BS.
People's feelings change over time. Plain and simple. Right or wrong.
No one is making excuses for anyone. I don't seek a reason either. Limerance/infatuation is real and it happens regardless of the current relationship status when you find another person. It's all about brain chemistry. New person will ALWAYS give those feelings at the beginning. It is hard to compete against that as an LBS. But those words used to describe it do not last. The ordinary life starts after a few years have gone by.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship
