Don't want to be a wayward wife ...

[JRuss]

Uh, Leahsue? I did read her posts. Did you? Yes, it's "cheating"; Blu herself called it "infidelity". There's no difference in the meaning of those words in this context, but one is considerably harder to spell (at least for me).

But let's be clear. I think you mistakenly believe that I care even a little about whether she's cheating or judge her for it. She can and should do whatever she wants, ESPECIALLY after what was done to her by her husband.

But if she wants him to back off (what she says in her most-recent post (that you think I didn't read)) -- or if maybe she wants simply to return their dynamic back to something approaching moral parity (because the current dynamic where he's in perpetual apology mode isn't working FOR HER and isn't ever going to, if reconciliation is the goal) -- she might consider telling her husband about what's going on. There's a chance it would make him cling harder and pursue more (what she says she doesn't want, in the post you think I didn't read), but I doubt it, since he's already clinging and smothering her.