Oh M, that must have been painful for you to find out. Hugs.
Don't let it blow your mind off course...emotions can make us do silly things, I know that first hand! Keep DB, GAL, and be kind to yourself. Chances are he's not as happy as you think he is...or he won't be after his fog burns off and although this can be a slow process it gives us time to find the real us.
Try to have a good weekend.
Me 50 H 48 S 23 S 21 D 19 Together 31 years Married 25 years Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010 Separated September 2017