So the last day has been interesting. Today after school, I had planned to take S14 tobse e Justice League. W calls me up and mentions that she invited one of S14 friends to come along. Also brings up that she will be meeting us at the movies as well. So W basically just through herself in my plans. Not wanting to argue in front of the boys she had on speakerphone, I simply said okay.
Also the clerk from my lawyers office called me later yesterday. He has been going through the phone records from last month. Mentioned two guys names. I didn't recognize any of the names. But he was laughing telling me to just lool them up in FB. Had no intent on looking them up, but after a few hours I took a look. First guy has to be pushing 50 or at least looks like it. Scrawny with a beer belly and looks like he drinks way too much. Between his first and last name had "boutthismoney". Job is making sandwiches...lol.
The second guy who apparently she has been texting with nonstop is some 24 year old. Goofy looking and according to his own page 6'1" 125lbs...lol. Instead if getting upset, I just wondered why this kid would risk messing with anyone W. Based on what the clerk told me that started contacting each other last month when W attended her friends wedding. That is when I suddenly realized that this kid is the brother of W friend/coworker who recently got ordained and officiated the wedding. My guess, the friend hooked my W up with her brother.
The crazy part is that these folks don't realize that people get seriously hurt over this stuff. But to be honest, I wasn't even that upset. Considered showing up to this kids job and basically just having a man to man conversation. But as I am typing this, I don't even care to do that. I just want to move on. W is basically just entertaining anything with a penis at this point. Some say that I should be happy that her options have been low. But I just feel numb about this all.
So W contacts me on the way to work, asking about S14 dental and vision insurance. I have always covered him under mine, including medical. W suddenly is interested in covering him as well. Now in the divorce paperwork I sent her last month. My lawyer put that I would continue to cover S14. But this always meant that W had to pay me more money in child support. W claims that two forms of insurance will help cover everything. But my question why is she suddenly thinking about this Now? W bas worked in insurance for 3 years now. My guess is that she is trying to lower those child support payments that she is looking at.
Earlier this week, W called me out of the blue talking about she wanted to close the main account we were using to pay joint bills. Still has yet to present me with a plan in regards to the joint bills. So my guess is that W is finally preparing for this divorce. And its time for me to stop playing defensive and just demanded she sign those papers next week.
