What do you want? The good folks here convinced me to go for 50-50 custody. Stbx tried to make me an every other weekend dad. Get a good L and get what you want. Where she lives is no longer your concern but if she has nowhere to live, you may get full custody. Too many WW have also abandoned their children. Be ready for anything.
And the spew? Ignore it. Don’t defend yourself. Don’t fight. It’s not worth your emotional energy. I am fond of the phrase: “I am not going to defend myself from false accusations.” That’s a conversation ender. Yes, the LBH is always to blame for the affair. You made her lay down with another man, right? Watch out for all sorts of false accusations including false police reports.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
