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Had the D talk last night. She blamed me for making her have the affair. Said she had no interest whatsoever in working on us just because she didn’t want to. Said it would be a waste of time. When I asked how she planned to lie after the D she just said I’ll figure it out. She cant move in with OM because the military, last I knew, will not allow you to shack up in base housing, which is where he lives. Maybe they do now, it’s niether here nor there. She also said that I wouldn’t get proper visitation, just the summers and spring breaks. She is in no position to dictate that because it’s up to the judge for one and second I have to sign an agreement allowing her to take them out of state, which I will never do. She says this is vindictive. She’s the one doing wrong and I have to oay the consequences? Wrong answer. She can’t afford a lawyer and he won’t pay for it. This is gonna get ugly.