Have you considered the possibility that she and the "sister" could be having a lesbian affair?
Whatever it is - your wife's not right. Seriously, who lets $120 worth of concert tickets go to waste like that? That was disrespectful and just plain selfish. In fact all of your examples are.
Also this "sister" sounds like a sociopath.
kml,
I've flat out asked, the W got pissed off that I did. The reason I am certain they are not, even the W knows the "sister" is a cesspool for STDs.
Our MC - my IC thinks their bond goes back to when they were kids, while my W's family was insane going off the tracks, my W was staying w/ the "sister's" family, (and while that household was anything but sane) it still was shelter from the storm, an escape from the madness.
Yes, it was disrespectful and selfish of the W, the thing is, this is the only setting she behaves this way, otherwise she is the most selfless thoughtful person I have ever met.
Yes the "sister" is a sociopath amongst many other things.
The sun still rises, even though the pain.
Married: 10 Together: 17 M:40 W:37 D:13, S 7, S:5 1st Bomb dropped: 4/20/17 2nd Bomb dropped: 6/6/17 Separated: 7/26/17 W moved back home: 12/1/17