Its really hard to learn about the OW
just take care of yourself

the pain will ease in time
for now just have to go through it and get all the support you can
many people understand D and infidelity and can offer support
12 step programs are helpful to get through it

its his crises and Affair partners are just bandaids to cover up their pain
they usually can't and don't last, but he has to figure it out that another person can't fix him


hang in there


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow