Do you really need to have a talk with H about the future? You may hear things you don't want to hear. Sometimes that is worse than hearing nothing at all.
I don't really want to. Since we are in such a state of Limbo most of the people in my life are advising.
They think he wont really miss me and/or I wont really move on if we are still living in the house together.
They think it is not healthy that no action steps have been made to separate anything other than our emotions. We still have joint checking and manage finances together, live together, have many affairs (leaves, lawn, dog) that we are managing together.
Makes it seem less separate?
I need to be better at 180-he [censored] me in with that smile and his presence.
Me: 29 H: 29 T: 8.5 M: 5 Bomb Drop: July 2017 S: September 2017
