Depressed H- save my marriage

[Caz49]

Hope, I feel your frustration!

I say to my counsellor I just want the next five years to be fast forward.

It's the waiting for the next move that pains me...I now try (easier said than done) to block H out of my mind. But he creeps in from time to time, more than I want, but I'm working on it. I know my H won't be thinking of me or our marriage. So I guess I shouldn't waste my heartache wondering about H.

Do you really need to have a talk with H about the future? You may hear things you don't want to hear. Sometimes that is worse than hearing nothing at all.

I wish you the best Hope.