Have you told him you're cheating on him with another man? Because if not, that would be the sort of information that would seemingly make it a lot easier for him to do that.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)