waw maybe

[Gordie]

If you want to save your M, then just back off...way off. Do not initiate conversations. This is pursuit. Do not ask about D.

If you are done and only you know if you are done, then don’t wait for her to file. You keep asking why she doesn’t? My w took 6 months to file and then didn’t follow through. I have no idea why she won’t file but stop asking. Maybe she is just lazy. Maybe she is undecided. Maybe she doesn’t know how.