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[bhappy2]

Have not been able to post and I really should be because this is the place that I get the best advice.

I have some questions but first thank you to all the vets on here bc if it werent for them I would be D already and the only thing that has stopped that is me backing off completely.

If WAS wants to D why do they not file?

Why in the beginning after BD are they so angry?

If there is OM why don't they just tell LBS?

My W continues to do things as a family but will not do anything with me alone. She has done some things to make it feel like she was being nice such as doing my laundry cooking meals for me only.

I told her that if there is OM I have no prob with that and I will just let go and we can just get D'ed but she is adamant that there isn't. I have no proof of this and I have tried hard to find any.

I have a great GAL and she is asking the kids about me and they are telling me she is asking.

IC says that wife is experiencing poss MLC, Empty Nest, Menopause... etc etc.

Just to recap she does not want to move out and does not want me to move out. I have not spoken to her in two weeks and she intiates hello, and has asked benign questions that she already has the answer to. We do not fight or argue and didnt even before all this. My suspicion is she is going to file after the holidays and no i am not mind reading just a suspicion.

I am nearly 6 months post BD and at this point I dont even know her anymore. I may want to D now and she can just move on.

The kids who are all adults want to stay with me, they think W is a bit off the rails.

Being that she is still here does anyone have any advice how to procede from this point on.. should I start convo with her or just keep DB? I have read DR and have been pretty good but made a couple of mistakes.