I can't compare them and I wouldn't. They are just different. And my feelings for one have nothing to do with my feelings for the other. There is no emotional attachment to OM and in that sense there is a safety.
Blu,
I get it! And, thank you for responding. As an LBS it's nice to get that kind of feedback.
I'm sorry for what you're going through. It sounds as if, in many ways, it's more difficult than divorce. I hope you can sort things out and get back on firm footing regardless of the direction you take.
Something I recently read about that seems interesting, but I certainly don't know anything about it first-hand, is enhanced couples counseling (I'm euphemizing). I've read a lot about it, and if all the reports are true, then it may be a huge step forward for therapy. Anyway, I feel like I'm a street dealer for even mentioning this, but google "MDMA couples therapy."
