S14 is in a really rough spot. I do have trouble communicating with him, and I think he's jealous of my interaction with S10 to some degree. It's weird though, up until about a year ago, S14 and I were so close. I always try to include him with S10, but he often opts out. It really upsets me. I'm starting to worry that he'll chose not to live with me after the D.
I do not avoid discussing co-parenting (GOD, I HATE THAT WORD) with STBXW. Sometimes she pushes an issue I'm not ready to discuss because of plans I'm not sure of yet, so I ask her to postpone the convo until later. Maybe she sees my desire to postpone as being stubborn though.
Childhood issues (mainly being betrayed by friends and bullied): I've been working with my IC on so many other issues, that the childhood issues have taken a back seat. Now that my emotional turmoil is starting to subside, I realize I have to address these issues with my IC. Thanks for the kick in the butt.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
