Good feedback, J9. Thanks! I don't take it as you being critical at all.

A lot of your suggestions take the form of "sit down and discuss". While that might seem like a good approach, I don't think it would work for us right now. She is refusing all face-to-face communication. And I think it's for the best since she can't go a single discussion without making accusations against me ("I hate her", "I'm trying to screw her", or I've done something intentional to her).

Earlier this morning we were texting about finances, and we started to get somewhere, but she threw in some accusations. I denied them and said I hoped we'd be able to discuss this in a civil manner. She then ended the conversation. I don't feel like I can get anywhere with her right now.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.