Thank you Joseph, it really does help to hear from a man. Just found evidence of a girlfriend and am freaking out. My al-anon sponsor told me to pray for him and the girlfriend. Last thing I wanted to do, but did anyway. Crying sobbing, hopefully I am on the right path. Holy crap this is painful.


DB August 6, 2017 after 3 month separation
Me: 54
H: 58
Two Teenage sons
Living Separately from H
Married 19 years, together 22 years
Not sure if this is an MLC or WAS