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LH19, that is where I am. I contacted my L and he will begin to draw up the papers. She is adamant about divorce and not working on us. I cannot and will not tolerate this any longer. It has been 8 months of hell. She has destroyed our family with her selfish behavior. The children are suffering unnecessarily because of her actions. Her thought process is one sided and she doesn’t care. Since she wants this divorce maybe she should begin to feel what it will be like for her. Pay her own insurance, find a place to live, Provide her own health insurance, see how difficult it’s going to be for her. She makes a grand total of $800 a month and right now she has a $400 car payment and car insurance and health insurance then she’s left with $250 a month to live on but see how she plans on pulling that off. I’ve asked her several times how she planned on living and she said she would figure it out. She may have plans to move to Georgia to be with another man, but the children won’t go. The court will not allow it because it will cut into my visitation. In addition, I have the sought in official agreement stating that she can take the children out of state to be with him I will never do that. And I’ve done everything I could possibly do to try to save this, but ultimately she is the one that decides. I hope she’s making a good choice . It’s possible that the shock of being served with the papers in seeing it on paper will make it a reality for, as ate up with this as she is I doubt it. Sometimes you just have to let go