I didn't want to copy your last post because of the length. I could have written the exact same thing as I have he same feelings regarding my W and how my kids are dealing with this mess. My S13 who is a straight A student, on the national honor society, top of his class is now failing in 1/2 of his classes! Recently we had parent teacher conferecnes, I went this time(something my W complained that I never cared to go) to talk to his teacher to try and figure something out. All of his teachers said he seemed depressed all the time and wasn't participating in class and not turning in his homework and on and on. They all wondered what was going on so I told them, they all showed some compassion for my S13 that they would work with him. I talked to my W about what his teachers said and almost seemed liked she didn't care, I have lost so much respect for her that I don't think I will ever regain any ounce of respect after the D. I'm concerned that her selfishness will only harm my kids. What a mess!