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[gw5263]

Gotcha. The problem I’m having right now, is that my wife isn’t exhibiting any of those type behaviors she doesn’t yell she doesn’t scream we don’t argue we get along just fine. Until there is any mention of the relationship which I try not to do. When there is relationship talk usually become as one side it quickly and it ends. I thought telling her that I wanted her to have no contact with him in our home while setting a boundary and I thought the consequence of taking away her Wi-Fi access was enforcement. I see what you’re talking about now, that seems to be a controlling behavior. I just don’t want her to contact him from inside of our home I can’t do anything when she’s outside but it just appeared to me like I could stop her from doing it inside. I can see where that would come off as a punishment