yes, reasonable absolutely - nearly impossible in her current state. I'm not sure about the "if she really wanted it" statement. I think she does want her girls but doesn't have the strength to get herself out of the pickle she put herself in with this hostage taking relationship.
The girls' clarity is due to your consistency. Well done bud!! xoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver