Hi Irish, I haven’t been following the board for a while, and when I came back to read your thread, just WOW! All I can say, you’ve been handling it very well. I agree with others, she is not ready to repair the relationship with the girls, but she’s made a great progress, in my opinion. At least I can tell that the desire to do it is there. But… what a rollercoaster! You are so right to protect your Ds from all of the details. Your girls expectations of your ex are very reasonable and should be very simple to address when she is ready.

Take care.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state