Sotto, happy belated milestone birthday! I’m glad you had some great celebrations with friends and family!
Originally Posted By: Sotto
It is helpful to remember that it generally doesn't end well for the MLCer. Not that I wish XH unhappiness, but I would like to see him have some regret at some point and perhaps apologise too. I understand either may never happen and that's okay.
This resonated with me so much. I’ve been thinking about it recently, that it would be so nice to hear some kind of regret or apology from H. And I also know that I might never get it. I think his behavior towards me kind of indicates that he might be feeling some regret, but it is not enough for me. I agree with peicetoday, that your xh’s R and his OW sound like a disaster waiting to happen. She might just find herself a new upgraded version of a guy again. If she cheated with him, he will cheat on him.
I second bttfly, it is always a pleasure to read your posts. You are a great inspiration to folks here. Take care!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
