Thanks for the link, I checked out the post from CT - yes it is a very healthy, rational and inspiring perspective, I don't know that this hell we are going through could be summed up any better. I've bookmarked it, and will reference back to it on those days when I need some wind in my sails.
I've also started to read his threads, and while I' am not all the way through I can see that he truly used his experience to better himself.
The sun still rises, even though the pain.
Married: 10 Together: 17 M:40 W:37 D:13, S 7, S:5 1st Bomb dropped: 4/20/17 2nd Bomb dropped: 6/6/17 Separated: 7/26/17 W moved back home: 12/1/17