I think it is pretty clear she doesn't have your best interest at heart, whatever her motive. I think the more interesting question is why you met with her given that you had previous bad experience with her. I note that your daughter was upset that you did this because she knew it would not be a good experience for you. What is it that makes your daughter more checked into how this experience would play out for you? Are you listening to your gut, or that little voice inside you? Did you suppress it and go anyway? What can you do to be more present and aware within yourself to help you move along in this journey? Why are you still allowing your emotions to rise and fall with his actions/word of him, etc.?