Hi Lost. I wish I could write more now but I’m dealing with posting from my phone. Your story sounds VERY similar to mine. Check out my threads (there are many). Hopefully they will steer you away from some of the mistakes I made. I wish I had followed the advice of the board sooner. My sitch might be different now. Hang in there.
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14