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I think one of the many problems I have is boundaries. I can quote chapter and verse on criminal law and departmental policies but I cannot for the life of me grasp the boundary concept. I have no idea which to set in my ditch or how to enforce them. Some have tried to explain it to me but my thick head cannot wrap around them. Can someone please try the coloring book version for me? I thought telling her no contact with OM in our home was a good one and the consequence of losing WiFi access was a good boundary but from what I see I was wrong . Can anyone help with this, please?