I've learned so many things through this process and one is to distance myself from people like your friend.
In fact I've decided to not go to the annual Christmas night out with my former colleagues.
I know they mean well but I'm not going to put myself through " so what's happening with you and H?". " surely you won't take him back now after 18montns?" "You deserve better". "Depressed? Pull the other one...I've no time for that".
Unless you've walked in our shoes then you have no right to judge.
So what I'm saying is.....stay clear from people like her. You don't need that negativity in your life right now!
