A question I have had is in doing the 180/LRT do I spend anytime with W? She has asked me in the past to do something with her and I told her no, not right now. The only things we have done lately is have breakfast with our daughter. This weekend she will be at the house at the same time I am doing yard work and things outside. Is there a time I do anything with her? Completely withdraw? She still hugs me but my reaction is a short hug. I initiate the goodbye and no longer say I love you even when she says it first.