Update on Thanksgiving.... B's husband sent out an email to the family reiterating his offer to hold Thanksgiving, and wondering what everyone's plans were. No one responded, I'm pretty sure because they were waiting to see what my response was. I was out of the country and didn't see it for a while, and didn't respond when I did see it.
Talked to WAW about college financial stuff when I got home this morning. At the end of the convo, she mentioned that she was probably going to work over Thanksgiving since B and her husband were no longer hosting (apparently there were phone calls in my absence), and "someone" (she meant "my Dad" who no longer wants anything to do with her) said they were upset she was invited, but I told her "no, I let everyone know I would be uncomfortable with you there."
I called my mom afterward and she let me know B and her family were now going to her sister's for Thanksgiving, and we'd be going to my other brother's. Apparently her daughter 17 is upset that she won't see my kids. While I'm sad about that, too, I'm not wasting too much energy worrying about a situation that her mom and dad created.
Also, I did send an email to my brother expressing how deeply hurt, upset, and betrayed I felt by his actions, and made clear that he owed me a huge apology. The ball's in his court and we'll see what happens.
This whole situation has really opened my eyes to a lot of things, and I really am starting to feel indifferent about saving my marriage.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17
