Dusty70 I read your story and it is almost identical to mine. Me44, W41, S21, D19. T25 years, M22 years, Dfiled11/2. My wife was in loved with several and now has 1OM. Tells me how bad marriage was that took me completely off guard. Says no chance of R. It has been hard but I am doing the 180/LRT. I have seen little improvement but no big change. She still goes from friendly to cold at the drop of a hat. Sorry for your situation, just nice knowing I'm not crazy and others understand. MLC suck to deal with but it's not about me and I can't change it.
