I have read several but not all yet. I have been doing a lot of self work and that has been the best thing for me. I am starting to see small signs in her with her reaching out to me instead of me reaching out to her. Last night there was a conversation around my son and she asked why he won't talk to her, they were very close before this. She also said she hoped I am taking my responsibility for my part in what is happening, I believe this is a way for her to rationalize her actions and to play on my weaknesses. I just informed her I have been completely honest about myself with the kids. In the past I would have taken any blame she tried to give me. I feel like the pressure everything, especially the kids distancing themselves from her and her not having control of me, is starting to get to her.
