I know this is difficult for you, but you need to allow him to "lead" the dance for a bit. It's best to allow him to talk and you listen. If you do this, listen very closely, and I mean closely, for he will tell you things that you need to know. If they are allowed to talk w/o interruption, they do tend to spill the beans and talk away w/o a filter.
If you sit quietly, the answers will be revealed to you. You have to dig deeper for patience.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
