In June I found out my wife of 22 years was having an affair. At first she said she was happy in our marriage but was confused. As time passed that affair ended but she starts others and is now saying she loves one man. She now tells me she didn't realize how unhappy she was in our marriage until now. She is showing all the signs of a midlife crisis. At first I fell apart and couldn't stay away from her this lasted a couple months and pushed her away even more. I finally got some help and for the past two weeks I have done a good job with the LRT. I haven't reached out to her for almost 2 weeks. In that time she has started to reach out to me occasionally. She is still moving forward with divorce which she filed on 11/2. Some days she is cold with me and others she reaches out. Last time I saw her she gave me a hug and told me she loved me. I hugged her back a little but didn't respond to the I love you comment. I am doing my best to stay away from her but still get worried I am out of sight out of mind. I just would like other perspectives on the process. I fell I am in the right path but still struggle with my doubt.
