Thanks for the kind words Gordie. I intend to be their rock, I always was anyway so not much will change there. They have the familiarity of my w house as their home, but they love my place. I can't wait for them to wake up tomorrow morning and have an empty house with no kids running around in their space. And then coming home to a clean stress free home. It will be strange for them at first, but I think over time they'll begin to appreciate it.
I understand her plan is to use my old house as a full time nursery and get a new place with him. I'm sure she plans to take the kids there too. He's gonna need a big house for all his kids from his previous marriage's! I just feel it's so unfair to force something on kids for your own selfish needs.
I always told my w that when I was young, as soon as my Mum met her new husband all regard for me went out the Window. My father left me in an airport, some people took me back to my Mum and she didn't want me because she was in love and I would get in the way. She's admitted this to me as I've grown older and it's her biggest regret. With this knowledge you would think she would never have done this to them.
Anyhow, I'm looking forward to spending my days with them. I'm so lucky I have the job I do that's so flexible!
