You are doing the right thing. Stay strong for you and your kids. Follow your conscience. Lots of time to date on the other side. No need to rush. Be the sane parent for your kids. Fidelity in the face of infidelity is honorable.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving