Advice on wife's actions

[Gordie]

Liam,

I am so sorry. You are right about the kids. You need to be the sane parent for them. You need to be their rock. Sure, you can fall apart when they’re not around but for them, you can do this. One sane parent can save the children. It’s not what you wanted or ever imagined, but you really can do this. Get as much help and support as possible. You will need it. I have a friend whose w walked out on him and the kids five years ago. It’s been a rough five years, but he has been there for his kids and he has been there for me in my own situation.