The lack of meaningful communication has been an ongoing issue. She hasn't filed for divorced or moved out. But that is strictly financial. We agreed we should wait until after her military deployment to actually file for divorce.
We had a marriage counselor. She didn't want to go back and I thought she was largely useless. After being told it is understandable she would have affairs if I had been drinking. She also said I should understand the marriage is over and get my own place then pay bills for my wife the children and her brother.
Needless to say she would have been fired anyway. My wife likes to reiterate I am not throwing you out. If I leave it is my choice.
