No I work and now she works as well. She meant on weekends that I didn't do enough with them. We would do an activity then I would play a video game with some of my online friends.
Yes I am horrible with money. For the longest time I was the sole provider even now she works I still pay all of the bills. Personally I would love for her to take over the budget. I am on the impulsive side especially when doing things for her or the kids.
I don't feel overly controlling. But I could see where people would get that impression, I am the always moving and doing something type. We have three children and there is always something that hasn't been done.
First affair was after our son was born. She said it was due to postpartum depression and I wasn't doing enough to help her.
Second affair happened during her AT for the Navy. It was right after her grandparents had died. Again I wasn't there emotionally for her. I know it was her choice but it still hurts.
Third Affair was strictly emotional and online. I found out about shortly after we actually had gotten married. She said it was because I spent to much time with one of my friends.
So we have been together 10 years and only married 3 and half now.
Yes the fact I don't trust her makes her angry. She always tells me it in the past and too let it go. Even though she gets mad at me and tells me how I am not a man and drunk.
