So I was right, she told my Mum last night that his wife has accepted it. What hippie sh## is this! Holding, I agree with your professional opinion. To introduce this craziness to our children at such a difficult time is unhinged! She's lost my trust and likely a few others too.
I intend to file for divorce next week siting adultery, she said she would accept this last time we spoke so... I'll not react to whatever crap she pulls and document everything with my L to be ahead on building a case for full custody should she do something really stupid.
I'm just moving forward now, I need to completely remove her from my life. Although we agreed joint custody I'm just going to tell myself the kids live with me, this is their home now and they're just visiting her when they're not here. I'll have to counter balance the craziness with solid simple love while they're here.