She's had three affairs and complains you don't trust her!?
Do I understand correctly that your W works and are a stay at home dad? If so, what does she mean by not spending enough time with the kids? What are their ages?
Are you guilty of mishandling the money so badly you have put yourself into a lot of unnecessary debt? Do you have any sources of income besides your W payroll?
Do you see yourself as controlling?
Tell us about her three affairs.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
