25yearsMLC 10 Later I FILE D part 8

[25yearsmlc]

fyi

I waited over a year before I began dipping my toe into dating.

I don't know how anyone can date before then and NOT be reactive, and or needy and or grabbing anything floating.

It's part of why 2nd m's end more often than first.

There are some who will argue, well, we put up with less, but I say, TIMING and GROWTH from the first divorce, determine the most about whether we will last in our 2nd marriages. Or so I hope.

If your wife just left you this past summer and you want to date now, dig a little deeper to see what you're grabbing onto.

It's rebound, per se. Our first r's are rebound by definition. Doesn't make them ALL wrong but it sure puts a weight on it.