Any advice 4

[Gordie]

You can’t control her you can only control you. You have options. Here are three: (1) ignore the behavior/wait it out and hope it stops, (2) confront her and constantly call her out on it which may drive her to move out and in with OM and/or file for d, or (3) you can decide you will not be in a relationship with a woman who is in a relationship with another man and file for d.