I’m nondoctor, but from what I’ve read it almost sounds like a MLC. She is 47 years old so I guess it’s possible
Why MLC? Just b/c she is 47? Women don't have a MLC just b/c she's in her late 40's. I have told you all alone that she is wayward. And now you are seeing just how low she has stooped......so you tell yourself it must be a MLC? Perhaps that's the only way you can deal with it.
The reason I even bring it up is b/c I think you are an example of a lot of people who move over to the MLC forum. They simply can't believe their S could do the things they do unless it's MLC. Nobody can get lower than a wayward. Nobody can be colder, turn their back on their kids, be as cruel, manipulative, challenging, dramatic, angry, sense of entitlement, and selfish to their core.......like a wayward.
I have also seen many LBH's move to MCL forum b/c they felt that they wouldn't have to apply tough love if the W was in MLC. Tough love, for some people, means enforcing boundaries.
What your W has been doing is not at all uncommon for a WW. Everything about her waywardness is disgusting and disrespectful.
Do what you need to do, but please.......don't lie to yourself about her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
