Thanks for the co parenting advice. This is hard and tricky. I do want stbx to have a good R with the children but I also see the damage she is doing to that R even if she doesn’t. And yes, she left Team Gordie so not sure how this is supposed to work. I basically only now talk to her about the kids and money and divorce. The kids are the safest topic as we both still care about their health, welfare and education and want the same things, in theory. Lots for me to chew on and to learn on this topic. I should read some books on the topic.
In terms of the d, no word yet on whether she agrees and will sign or disagrees and will further negotiate. Yesterday, she was unusually warm and friendly, but this no longer makes me think she is wavering or raises my expectations. I think I’m getting to that stage of no longer wanting the miraculous reconciliation I’ve been seeking for months on end. She has literally made her bed with OM2 and is laying in it. It still makes no sense to me and probably never will. I am a man only a fool would leave. My job now is to take care of myself and the kids. I miss her and us and our family, but that’s gone now. It’s time to move on.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
