So my wife and I have been together for 10 years. We have three children. She wants a divorce and I don't. So it has led to a lot of fighting lately. I would really like to end the fighting. I have changed the things she originally complained about. She doesn't seem to care.
This morning she asked to take my car for work. She said she wouldn't be home so I told her no. Which led to more fighting of course. So if I do what she wants she gets angry. If I leave her alone she gets angry. When I enforce boundaries she gets angry.
At this point I have no idea what to think. Part of me believes it is an affair. Another part thinks she is genuinely unhappy and just blaming me.
